September Resolutions

I've decided that fall resolutions are more likely to fail than New Year resolutions. We await the start of fall, school, and new routines... so when it arrives we jump onto the bandwagon. However, we often overload and must scale back our grand plans. So, I too must scale back.

The resolution to blog daily is admirable but truth is there is not enough time in the day. Blogs are creative efforts which requre inspiration, dedication, and plenty of time. However, time is limited in my life and I always end up "robbing Peter to pay Paul". (What is the source of that statement? I'll leave that to another time.)

One could say the success of a resolution comes down to knowing yourself and setting limits. But if we never branched out to change our limits then we would never make another resolution. So, in the fall we are ready for a change; a change in weather, habits, and activities. This harkens back to our school days and old habits do not die easily. At year end we are supposed to review and adapt our lives but in truth it is a weak tradition. So, set the easy goals for the year end but tackle the tough goals in the fall.

What tough goals did you set for yourself this fall?

Respect

Our society has become one where most people are out for themselves and care little about respecting other individuals. We are all victims of a lack of respect and saddly are all culprits in the deed. We have become accustomed to being lied to by our elected officials, the heads of corporatatios and schools, entertainment, journalism, our neighbors, and yes, even ourselves.

It is time to turn this around and move respect back into a place of honor. Consider those who have gone before us and hold a place of honor and high esteem in our society... Abraham Lincoln, Susan B. Anthony, Martin Luther King Jr., Dwight D. Eisenhower, Mother Theresa, among others. What sets these apart? A determination to make a difference and a respect for others.

So, why do we listen to those who ridicule and drag others down? Are we so insecure that we revel in the trashing of others? I listen to the dis-respect exhibited on the TV and radio and wonder "When did it become popular to belittle?" I hear the disrespect and distane for President Obama and it tells me the country is trouble when the general public does not respect our leaders. Are we transfering the past onto the present? Perhaps and if so it is time to live in the present and look to the future by learning to give others the respect that is due them.

Acknowledge the problems of the past but move to the future with a postive and respectful attitude. Can we do it? To borrow a line from President Obama, "Yes we can!"

Labor Day Celebrations

Last evening, Labor Day, I hosted a backyard picnic for several neighbors. Did you realise the impact of neighborhood gatherings is amazing. Gatherings are a time to meet informally; a time to share conversation, food, and build community. You quickly learn who is 'in the know' and what is happening; of course it helps if you invite the 'right' people. It is always difficult to figure the 'right' people

But getting back to Labor Day, the economic melt-down impacted everyone at our table. No, the economic meltdown and after effects were never mentioned; no need to we are all living it. There were eight people at the table: one lost his job, two small business owners barely keep their doors open, the electrician wonders how much longer he will have a job, the medical lab technician knows she has a job through March, and the three teachers were thankful to have a job that relies on enrollment staying steady. We noted that crime is up as we recounted the local crime and drug sales. The conclusion was crime and drug sales rise in relation to the increase in unemployment and homelessness.

Let's celebrate Labor Day by working to lower the un-employment rate.

Do you agree?

Natural Cycles

How often have you pondered the cycle of life?

We observe it daily but the average person rarely contemplates the cycle. And yet everything has a natural cycle - the tides, seasons, sun, moon, even humans.

This is fresh in my mind due to trimming a shrub and replanting the garden this weekend which have become fall rituals in answer to the natural cycle of nature. Last evening the full moon rose through the clouds, natural cycle. Then my sore arm, stressed from playing music, garden work, and the contra dance, reminds me it too has a cycle that requires rest. However, we do not often consider rest a natural cycle because we live in a 24x7 world with little down time. Perhaps we should harken back to an earlier time when people did take a natural break... or was that only fiction.

Monday Sept 7th we celebrate Labor Day to commorate the end of 12 hour work days and poor labor conditions. The first celebration was September 5, 1882 in New York City to protest the work conditions (NPR article) and eventually became a national holiday to celebrate the social and economic contributions of the labor force (Dept of Labor). Regardless we now have a natural cycle holiday that resulted from the need to change the unnatural cycle of 12 hour work days.

Yes, natural cycles abound it is only for us to observe and become aware. And it is our right to replace the unnatural cycles with natural cycles. So today I challenge you to examine your life, your community, your country and replace the unnatural cycles with natural cycles.

Becoming a Blogger

My new commitment for the fall is to become a blogger.
My inspiration?
The book ProBlogger by Darren Rouwse and Chris Garrett. As a computer user (who isn't?) and a Professor of Computer Science at Palm Beach Community College it only seems natural to air my thoughts.

So, what keeps me from being a frequent blogger?
Answer#1: Time
Somehow there are not enough hours in the day to do everything but I keep trying. The problem is what to give up and the only option I see at the moment is sleep. However, giving up sleep is not wise as there are so many sleep deprived people in the USA. While in college I experimented with 4 hours sleep a night and the final result was 5-6 hours was optimal. As I age it seems I need 6-7 hours. This brings me back to the topic at hand... blogging.

Answer#2: Content
We all have a wealth of information but it is not of interest to everyone. My life varies from exciting to dull (as most); when my life is exciting there are ample topics but in dull times when there is plenty of time I am not always inspired. The best plan is to create a mini-series and after several of those I will be in the habit of blogging.

Thank you for reading. Now, off to my next challenge... a topic for a series.
See you soon,
Marg